Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,

I’ve gone up to part 2 of Alpha Male Power and can say that last night and today I felt a couple of hours worth of great feeling. Though I haven’t practiced it properly with girls just yet, I feel much more connected with everyone and I think they sense something back. Just earlier I had a public duty with ambulance and albeit briefly, enjoyed some time and presence with a girl from her national basketball team, absolute beauty. I’d like to say thank you for things so far mate. At the same time, I’d just like to ask a question. As the hours went by, my ‘alpha male’ feelings sort of went down gradually, sort of like the pain relief in aspirin does. Is this normal? Is it just part of the process of completely harnessing the alpha male persona? I’d be grateful to hear your advice. Thanks again Dan, you’re a miracle worker.

Hi Jared

Thanks for sharing your success so far.

Yes, you have to get used to this new power you have! You weren’t even finished watching program and you were already feeling more powerful and confident. From here, you simply need to practice getting into that state/connecting with your power every day until it becomes natural and automatic for you. You will find that your power and confidence grows stronger each day, as does the effect you have on women. After going through the initial transformation you’ve experienced, you will already been attracting women on a deeper level than usual. Weeks from now, you will see that women are affected/moved/aroused on an even deeper level when they interact with you, to the point where they kind of “wake up” in the moment when talking to you and have a “wow moment”, as if they’ve FINALLY met their ideal guy. You’ll notice them trying to impress you, trying desperately to keep the conversation going, etc. Then, from there, you’ll notice that you have that effect on women everywhere you go. It’s a very enjoyable power to have!

By the way, you mentioned, “I feel much more connected with everyone and I think they sense something back.” That is awesome. That’s part of what this power and presence does, especially the loving presence that I teach in the program. People feel more connected with you and feel more appreciated and noticed. Just make sure you don’t get stuck in having such an amazing effect on women, but not actually moving things forward to kissing and sex. Notice their positive reactions and then move it forward. BTW: If you need more training on how to do that (including how to move in for a first kiss, get a woman back to your place for sex after a first date, one night stand, etc), I recommend Dating Power.

I look forward to hearing about more of your success!

Cheers
Dan

Who really is the prize?
You may have heard this concept before “You as a man should act as the prize”. But how many of you actually believe it? How many guys really believe they actually are the prize on a deep level? Well…I would like to propose to you a new way of looking at things that just may enhance your believing you actually are the prize.

Let’s consider what we men find attractive about women. These include their perky breasts, their youthful and firm skin, their asses which contain as minimal fat as possible, their wrinkle-less faces, their youthful and bright eyes etc. All this combined in different proportions make up what we call beauty. The fact of life is that we men find women sexually attractive for physical reasons. Hence if a woman wants to be attractive to men, she has to either be born lucky with the right genetic make up or turn to make-up, the gym, or cosmetic surgery.

Now what do women find attractive about men. These are confidence, masculinity/manliness, dominance, leadership, ambition, status(internal status), sense of humor etc. All of which are personality and psychological traits. Sure women like to check out the pretty boys, but the fact is that the effect a pretty boy has on a woman is nothing compared to what a guy who has the above said traits has on her at a deep sexual level.

Now if we compare what women are offering to men to what men her offering to women we have physical traits(beauty and youth) against personality/psychological traits(confidence, masculinity, dominance etc). Unfortunately for women what they are have as attractive features can only depreciate as time passes by. As a woman ages the beauty, youth and looks begin to fade. Her breasts succumb to the effect of gravity and drop, her skin becomes less firm, make up becomes more of a necessity than an accessory. She lives in deathly fear of losing her looks every single day(you have never seen a soldier fight a battle harder than woman fighting another year of getting older). I have seen women go into depression as a result of losing their looks. It is that bad.
Compare this with what a man is offering to woman. Fortunately for we men things like confidence, masculinity, dominance, status, leadership etc are NOT at the mercy of time/age. In fact if a guy continues to work on developing these attractive traits he can only improve them with time and become even more attractive as he gets older. Plus guys who have these traits as part of who they are quite rare, in limited supply and hence in high demand by women. Hence women ask “where are all the men?”

So I ask you which has more value? Is it the physical beauty of a woman that is not only common everywhere but also and more importantly reduces in value as time goes by? Or is it the personality/psychological traits of a man that can only increase in value with time and is far rarer than beauty?
Well I guess you see why you as a man are indeed the PRIZE and not the woman, no matter how beautiful she is. Remember this the next time you are talking to that beautiful woman. What you have to offer her is of more value, more lasting and rarer than her beauty. Embrace your value and power as a man, stop giving away your power to a woman because of the fleeting looks and realize that she is lucky to be interacting with you cause you chose to talk to her. Amongst other beautiful women, she is the one who gets to enjoy the gift of your masculinity for the time being so she better start doing some impressing. Lol.

Check out Dan and The Modern Man’s team products to find out more about developing these traits.

Hi Tosin

Well said once again mate!

Yes, a lot of guys don’t realize that beautiful women are everywhere, but real men are truly the minority. That is why I say that when a guy uses the advice from Better Than a Bad Boy, women will literally feel desperate to be with him and stay with him. Most guys will never experience that though, because they are being brainwashed by TV advertisements, TV sitcoms and those lame Hollywood movies (like “Hall Pass”) that make men look like hopeless idiots who are unworthy of women…or who have to jump through hoops before a woman will give them a chance.

When you are what women refer to as a “real man,” women jump through hoops for you. It’s a totally different life to live.

Thanks for sharing Tosin and for the shout out about Modern Man programs. Most guys don’t know what they are missing out on by not knowing what you and others know by learning from The Modern Man.

Cheers
Dan

P.S. Would love to hear about your success sometime soon Tosin. Post up a field report or let us know if you’re settled down with a girlfriend at the moment.

Hi Dan

I’d just like to say that Alpha Male Power is really good, thank you, well done! I can feel myself changing and ‘transforming’

Cheers

P.S I heard a quote the other day which I thought was hilarious (and true) – ‘He who hesitates masterbates’ LOL

Hi Anon

Good quote! Lol…

A lot of guys hesitate because they don’t realize how awesome it feels to walk up and talk to women they find attractive. It’s a liberating experience. Once you know that it’s okay to do that, you are suddenly in control and can choose the women you want. From there, you just need to know how to attract the women and move it forward to a phone number, kiss, date, sex and relationship. Other guys hesitate because they don’t know what to say or do to make something happen with a women they like.

For the guys reading along with these comments who haven’t gotten started yet, I’d recommend that you read The Flow and open your eyes to a new reality. Success with women is a lot easier that you might think. Start the journey, use the advice and enjoy the great times ahead!

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,
it’s been a while since I made a post, but some improvements have come. Now it’s a lot easier to arrange social gatherings, and I don’t feel much fear of being rejected when doing this. More people want to come shake my hand and greet me when they see me, and when I sit down with people at gatherings or whatever it takes less energy to converse.
Perhaps the thing I have some difficulty with is finding women who share enough in common with me. There is usually enough connection to make a good conversation, but it’s hard to really connect enough for me or for them to feel like we should take it to the next level. So basically I am making more good friends than before but only once in a while finding someone all that compatible.
Thanks a lot,
Johann

Hi Johann

Thanks for sharing your success so far.

Yes, it sounds like the key ingredient you are missing is a sexual vibe and sexual intention. Unless you proactively create a sexual vibe between you and a woman, it will rarely happen by “magic” on its own. Most guys unknowingly put themselves in the friend zone with a woman by acting like a friend to her. Instead, you need to actively create a sexual vibe and allow both you and a woman to go there with each other. If not, she will act polite and friendly like you and nothing will happen.

Interesting that you posted a comment on this page, because Alpha Male Power has the techniques you need. In the Alpha Male Power program, I explain and demonstrate the 4 different types of presence that you need to use when interacting with women to cause the deepest level of attraction possible. One of the presence types is “Sexual Presence” and it is essential for naturally and automatically creating a sexual vibe between you and a woman.

Cheers
Dan

Dan your philosophy at the end of this program is very empowering. If every human being heard this it would cause all of us to reach the power of presence on this earth. ” I am here”. No one can take that from you but yourself or death. That’s just gold. Can’t wait to buy Better than a Bad Boy.

Hi Kingsley

Glad to hear you grasped the meaning of that section. It’s very powerful when you understand it and live it.

I look forward to hearing about your success!

Cheers
Dan

Greetings Dan and everyone else on post,

Straight to the point. Dan I was once very good with women in my earlier years up to 23 years old(2003). Mostly it was due to the type of men I was surrounded by then which gave me a natural and authentic bad boy edge: Pimps, Macks, Street hustlers, and gang members. By that time I slept with 143 women, and no dates every existed, just meet, mingle exchange numbers and be banging her in the same day or few days depending on logistics.
I agree and know from person experience that being and Alpha Male, Seeing yourself as the Prize, and
having Raw Masculinity are very vital elements to be
successful with women which most “pickup artist”
now days fail to understand and keep preaching the same old corny sh*t, lame complex and hard to remember theories, and just plain rehashed bulls**t with a new name. In my opion they are just good marketers who analyzed from the outside in men who are really good with women and try to make it a harder than it really is science, because they fail to see the root mechanisims inside that man that allows him to be successful.
I made a career choice back in 2003 to drive trucks over the road. Fastforward to now 2012 I’m about to exit the over road truck driving and get stationed locally and jump back into the dating and seduction realm again full fledged.
But I have bigger and new agendas now. I only want to meet, date very high class, eloquent, classy, beautiful women who have more value and assets to add into my life besides just being cute, nice breasts, nice smile, cool personalities…been there done that. I’m going after the big leagues now, and will not tolerate less.
The thing is I need to get my mojo back, and I want to
learn how to get these women “consistently”.

This is where I believeyour systems Alpha Male Power and Better than Bad Boy can help me. I get a sense that you are authentic and the real deal and far from another “pickup artist”.
However I have a few questions.
*When you say immediate and lasting confidence,
results, etc. Is this another system that just involve
repeating affirmations, visualizations, etc. Or is there a
secret method inside that allows this change to really
happen immediately and lasting? (You don’t have to
tell me what it is here, if that’s the case) Just trying to
understand realistically what to expect and time limit
involved
*When you say the results are permanent and you will
be able to get pretty much any woman-I’m curious
about that aspect..is it mainly do to the techniques or
a energy/magnetic vibe you radiate?
*I like things to be simple, Natural and to the point. Using your systems will I have to remeber alot of complicated techniques(which sound great while learning at home)
but are hard to remember and get you stuck in your
head when it actually counts(live face to face with
women)

I know your systems are a little expensive in price and want to just make sure ahead of time that this is a wise investment for both products because from my travels to other countries..I’ve noticed that women are a hell of alot easier to meet, seduce versus here in the U.S. and I want to make sure my A-game is up to par. So I
don’t mind making that investment as long as the products are dynamic(which I sense they may be) and not just something I can learn from google, or watching those corny/lame “pickup artist”

Also, I believe in leaving excellent testemonials, so I will take it a step further than just writing a post..and show live video footage of me utlizing what I learned with real women as proof that you and your systems are the real deal(but I will not disclose the secrets or lessons)

I look forward to your responses to my questions, and I am ready to jump onboard my friend
Thanks
Ken, U.S.

Hi Ken

Well, you sound like a cool guy.

…and yes, I totally agree with you about the state of this industry these days. Most people pushing advice out there are NOT successful with women. Do a search in Google for the “guru’s” name and then type in “girlfriend” into Google and you will usually see that he only hooks up with ugly women. One of the biggest guys in the industry married a fairly ugly woman, after selling DVD sets to guys for years talking about how to pick up attractive women. So lame…!

As for me, I don’t hide the fact that I’ve been with and continue to be with hot women (photos). I talk the talk AND walk the walk. This is what I do…and I love it.

As for the lasting confidence you want to learn about and experience from now on. It comes from deeper things that just mindsets (as you acknowledged though – it’s not something I’ll teach here in a comment – thanks for mentioning that). The truth is, most advice on affirmations is incorrect because simply saying affirmations on their own, is only ONE step in a THREE step process for building and maintaining true confidence with affirmations and positive mindsets.

As for classy women who are high value. Yes, those women need a guy who can offer more than just a funny line or a bit of interesting conversation. They need a real man and that’s what you will learn about in Better Than a Bad Boy. A classy, sought-after woman knows that she can have her choice of men. So, if a guy just comes along and gives her the usual interaction experience, she isn’t going to be jumping up and down with excitement. What you will learn in Better Than a Bad Boy is how to make a woman desperate to be with you. Not just “like” or feel attraction for you…I mean desperately want to be with you.

About Alpha Male Power: Yes, this will help you get back the mojo you once had. It will give you the advice and guidance needed to step back into being a powerful, alpha male in any situation. Personally though, I’d suggest you start with Better Than a Bad Boy. When you become a customer, I will send you some e-mails with 50% off discounts for various products (including Alpha Male Power). Once you’re on board, I will take care of you all the way to success and beyond.

Cheers
Dan

P.S. Typing this now as a hot 21-year old lounges on my couch in her underwear. I’m in another room and after answering a couple of more comments, I’m going to have to get back in the lounge room! Lol…

Actually, scrap that…I’m going back into the lounge room now! Lol…

Hey Dan,

I’ve read basically all of your articles, aswell as some not-modern-man-stuff, so I do have a decent amount of knowledge.

What I wonder thou is when you HAVE sparked attraction (this is a girl that I am around all of the time, as we go to the same classes and live at the same campus aswell. and she is hot) do I still keep on pushing her away from time to time (a little bit of rejecting her), so as to not become monotone and too predictable?

Should I STILL push-away regularly, even after first stages of attraction (I feel like push-away’ish moves are great for sparking attraction and making you seem like you have alternatives – and she is the one trying to qualify).

I.e, do you recommend I throw in a little bit of this every time that we cuddle up? Or should it be more rarely?

Does the push-away move keep being useful troughout all the stages of getting the girl, even later on in the relationship?

I have been thinking about getting your product ”the modern relationship”. Does this also contain the creating attraction basics? (just in case I might have missed something).

Hi Anonymous

Thanks for your question.

This highlights the problem with guys learning from experts like us AND from amateur sites at the same time. Unlike The Modern Man, the 1,000s of amateur “dating advice” sites out there have NOT gone through years of testing before releasing their advice. They are simply trying to make a quick buck and they’ll say whatever they can to write an ebook or fill up an audio program. Then, guys like you are the victims of their slack, reckless and immoral approach.

Listen “Anonymous,” it’s up to you how you want to approach this area of your life, but let me give you an important piece of advice: If you learn from amateurs, you will be an amateur and you’ll make the same silly mistakes they do. Have a listen to this audio clip to hear what we went through for YEARS, before recording our program Dating Power. We could have recorded our early seminars (see photos here), but we did not. We waited until we had years of long term success stories from guys (who had stayed with their girlfriends, gotten married or who had been living the “player lifestyle”) and years of being able to coach guys to success, no matter what they looked like, what nationality there were or how old.

The thing you mention about “push aways” – mate, that is not what we advise in any of our programs. Why? It is an amateur move, performed by insecure guys who are trying to trick girls into thinking they are confident and couldn’t care less. If you want to live with integrity and have women love you for YOU and not for a bunch of tacky tricks (which they’ll eventually see through anyway!), then learn from us and us only.

About learning from The Modern Relationship as your starting point. Not at all. Someone like you (who, to my expert eye, lacks self-belief) needs to watch Better Than a Bad Boy, so you understand how to do things correctly from the first conversation, on dates, during sex and throughout a relationship. When you watch that program, you’ll realize that most of the sites that come up in Google are not run by real experts. If the site is run by a “guru,” type his name into Google and do a search for pictures of him and his girlfriend. You’ll find that most of these frauds talk about picking up attractive women, but in reality, only hook up with ugly or average women. In case you’re wondering what my girls are like, here are some photos of just SOME of my girls.

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,

What’s your opinion on going out alone at night to meet women? I’m in a new town, so I have to go out on my own, but am afraid that this might somehow hinder the advice (I have several of your products).

Thanks in advance for your thoughts.

Hi John

Thanks for your question.

It’s something you have to get used to. I recommend that guys who are starting out first try to find some friends to go out approaching with. Personally, I go out alone about 30% of the time now, especially when I just want to go out and pull a one night stand, without having to party all night with everyone. An example is the photos with me and two girls here (where I am wearing the green and white striped t-shirt and we’re out in the rain with umbrellas in one photo and in a club in another) – I went out alone that night, saw them standing at a bar together (and noticed that guys were hovering around, but too afraid to approach) so I just hit them up. They were rapt to be speaking to a confident, easy-going and (I don’t want to say this, but it’s true) cool guy. We partied for a couple of hours, then I went home with the girl in the black.

However, that’s not something I did when I was first learning. I always went approaching with a friend of mine, until I was good at it. If you don’t have many friends to go approaching with because you’re living in that new town/city you mention, the Alpha Male Power program will teach you how to walk through the world with the confidence of an alpha male and just do whatever you want to do – regardless of who is or isn’t with you. There’s a technique in Alpha Male Power called “The GIST Technique”…I won’t go into what it is here, but when you use that technique it won’t matter if you are alone or with 5 people – you will approach if and when you like, anytime, anyplace.

Cheers
Dan

P.S. Also, if you want to make new friends, try the 21 Great Ways to Get a Girlfriend (many of the ways include opportunities to make new friends and expand your social circle) and read this

Dan,

LOL, I am going to buy almost every one of your products! So far, I am thinking The Flow or Alpha Power. I am already handsome, but can’t seem to find women interested in me, and I am starting to think that I should just fuck it and approach a bunch of them….but of course, I need your guidance.

I was hesitating for a while with your products, but noticed you posted pics and evidence with you and hot women above to establish your credibility(THANK YOU), and wondered what product you yourself are using when you are picking up women? For example, is it the Flow, Alpha Power..??
Interview with a Natural Ash seems more like this product as well.

PS: Speaking of frauds, have you heard of Vin Dicarlo? BRUTAL BILLING SCHEME HE HAS GOING ON WITH THAT PANDORA BOX SHIT.
He lost his merchant account due to fraud, and had to get a new one…
What a clown!

Hi MLM

Thanks for your message.

I just searched Facebook using the e-mail address you entered with your comment and can see that you are in fact a handsome dude. Yet, as you have been experiencing, being handsome does NOT guarantee you get the girls you want or even get ANY girls whatsoever. Women are looking for more important traits like confidence, masculinity, humor, ability to pass their tests, sexual vibe, sexual confidence, etc. If you don’t have that, your looks will only ever get you looked at by women.

Over the years, I’ve coached all sorts of guys in person and showed them how to approach women. Cool guys, dorky guys, overweight guys, skinny guys, guys of pretty much every nationality, etc. The one thing that has remained the same everytime was that when a guy uses The Modern Man approach to women, he gets results. It just works y’know. I remember back in the early days when I coached by 5th ever client and he arrived to course and looked like someone from “Revenge of the Nerds”. Ben from The Modern Man was there to meet another client and he laughed at the way the client had his shirt buttoned all the way up and his hair parted in the middle and said, “Come here bro” and unbutton the top two buttons, ruffled up his hair, untucked his shirt, rolled up his sleeves and said, “Right. Now you’re ready” The client was smiling ear to ear, because he needed that guidance. He needed to be shown that stuff.

Anyway, I taught him what he needed to know to have the confidence that women wanted and even I was amazed at what happened next. We did a 3 night course and he was making out with girls on the 2nd night like he had been doing it for years. At one club, he was chatting with two model-looking girls for an hour and ended up playing them off against each other, fighting for his attention. I mean, if you weren’t there to see it, it might sound unbelievable, but it happened. I saw him about 6 months later walking along a street with a hot girlfriend and we just gave each other a discreet nod as we passed each other on the sidewalk.

So, if a guy like THAT or like this can do it, it proves that looks are NOT important. Looks are irrelevant if you don’t have what women ACTUALLY want in a man. If you listen to the insecurities of guys who are hopeless with women, they’ll tell you that it’s all about looks, money, height, flashy cars, etc. However, they fail to acknowledge that pretty much EVERY time they see a hot girl, she is with a boyfriend who is NOT “good looking,” rich, etc. She is with a guy who BELIEVES in himself…which happens to be one of the most important aspects of success with women.

As for your mention of the pick up artist: I won’t comment any further about him because I don’t want to directly bad mouth anyone in the industry, but I will allow you guys to say whatever you want in the comments. For all I know, that guy could be a really good guy, but since I don’t mingle with anyone in the industry I don’t know.

About my photos: Thanks, I’m glad you appreciate that. Personally, I was shocked when I searched Google images to see some of the girlfriends of the “gurus” (do a search and see). It’s actually quite frustrating for me because there are so many unsuspecting guys out there who look up to these fraudulent gurus who TALK about picking up attractive women in their programs, but then only manage to get unattractive women. I mean, how do I get the word out and tell guys not to buy the programs of these fake gurus? I guess they’ll just have to learn the hard way; I’ve literally had 100s of customers tell me things like this, “Damnit! Why didn’t I learn from you guys to begin with? I’ve wasted the last 2 years trying to use _______’s stuff and it didn’t work. I got laid on my first (or second) approach using your methods” As Ben from The Modern Man said to me in the early days when he too realized the fraudulent behavior of these fake gurus, “Don’t worry…it will all come out in the wash one day” meaning that they will be revealed for the frauds they are.

Anyway, enough ranting. It was nice to finally get that off my chest though! I haven’t said this stuff before publicly in all the history of The Modern Man, but am glad to finally have the chance to without sounding like I’m just trying to “bad mouth the competition” so to speak.

About the product of mine that I am using when picking up women: It’s a combination of everything. The Flow process is the foundation of everything and we always go through the 4 steps of The Flow when meeting a woman. All of our other programs contain additional information in very specific areas. For instance, if you want to learn more about conversation, you’d listen to The Ultimate Guide to Conversation. If you wanted to learn more about being an alpha male and having the power of an alpha male, you’d watch Alpha Male Power.

Cheers
Dan

Excellent program, has helped me recapture my natural alpha male qualities.

Richard

Hi Richard

Thanks for your positive feedback. Much appreciated.

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,

So I wanted to thank you again first of all in all the work you, Ben and Stu have put into these products. They have really changed my life. I was ready for this change. Very ready.

I recently have tried your techniques and managed to get this hot girls phone number and ended up catching up with her on a Friday night. She was out with a girlfriend of hers, and 2 other guys. Long story short, by the end of the night, BOTH girls were loving me, and the 2 guys that were interested in both of them were working HARD to get any sort of attention. I couldn’t believe the power I have. Never, ever expected this sort of result. My mind sets have changed and my focus is completely different.

My questions are this:
1. Firstly, is it the best thing to be focused on how the women react to my conversation and actions? (This is the stage I am at now). Or is there a higher level that I can reach than this?

2. I’ve noticed women seem to constantly ‘test’. Within this is a lot of ignoring me or trying to make me jealous. I don’t really bite into this, and just let it be as I think this is just how women are. Am I right to think this way or is there something more that I should do or respond appropriately?

Thanks again for the help and tips.

Hi Dave

It’s awesome to hear about your success so far! THANK YOU for sharing it here.

I loved this part, “I couldn’t believe the power I have. Never, ever expected this sort of result.” EXACTLY. That is a power that you could have had ALL YOUR LIFE with women, but you just didn’t know how to make it happen. Now you have it for LIFE.

About your comment on being ready to learn from us when you arrived at this site: Yes, very true. It’s like the old Zen proverb, “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.” I’m glad you found us and I’m glad to be able to help you.

About your questions:

1. Yes, that is the level before mastery where you are using all the positive feedback you are getting to help your confidence continue to build. It’s a fun time of confidence building, new experiences with women and rising to new levels of awareness that others simply cannot see. The mastery level is different and I explain that in Better Than a Bad Boy. At the mastery level, your reaction to how women react causes them to feel a deep, powerful and absolutely irresistible type of attraction. If you’re enjoying the power you have now, just wait until you hit that level. It’s just awesome.

2. Yes, that is just the way women are. They HAVE TO BE like that because they need to test to see how confident and masculine a guy REALLY is. For instance, all is takes for a woman to find out that a guy lacks confidence, doubts his attractiveness and abilities with women and is less dominant than her (ALL huge turn offs) is for her to behave in a challenging way and pretend that she isn’t interested in him. Guys who are not alpha and who lack true confidence will buckle under that type of pressure and women will instantly notice it and lose interest.

BTW: If you want to learn about the tests that women put guys through and how to pass them all naturally, easily and without much thought or effort, watch Better Than a Bad Boy.

Cheers
Dan

Awesome. Thanks for the response.
1. I understand what you mean here. Especially about seeing things that other guys don’t. In fact that same night, one of the guys was working hard on my girls friend, but it was clear she was doing things to attract me, and the guy came up to me later and specifically told me he was confused and getting mixed signals because she was using him to make me jealous. I knew what was going on, but it was a waste of time to explain it to him and it would make him feel bad. I’m glad to see there is more I can strive for…very exciting.
2. I am very much having fun with this. I tell all my ‘taken’ friends (girls and guys) about this, and you can tell they are extremely envious of not being able to play with these skills. That’s ok though, they can live through me.

I look forward to getting Better than a Bad Boy.

Hi Dave

You’re welcome mate.

1. About other guys being confused about why women like you so much: Lol…welcome to my world. A couple of months ago, a new friend of mine was absolutely baffled as to why women were either “accidentally on purpose” bumping into me as they walked past, standing right next to me (and waiting for me to start a conversation) or smiling or waving at me from across the club we were partying at. The most confusing part for him was that he is a “good looking guy” and is tall and works out at the gym. I am none of that, but women were just naturally drawn to me. I said, “Dude, honestly – it would take way too long to explain. If you want, you can watch my Alpha Male Power and Better Than a Bad Boy programs and learn why women are reacting like that to me…” He watched them and since then has been laughing at how easy it is to attract and pick up women. Most guys just don’t get and WON’T get it. The stuff that you and I know Dave, is not the type of thing that guys who are good with women want to share with other guys. It’s basically kept to themselves their own lives and they usually don’t even help out their friends.

2. About telling people about learning this stuff. That is fine, as long as you’ve watched Alpha Male Power (like you have) and know how to avoid people messing with you, picking on you, etc. Guys who don’t know how to be alpha (and as such, are lower ranking males) will be picked on for revealing that they “need help with the ladies.” However, yes – I also experience what you’re saying about friends “living through me” and it’s fun. My married friends love hearing all the stories about me hooking up with new women (and seeing the bedroom photos and videos, lol…), but I make sure I don’t talk about it in front of their wives, because I don’t want to cause problems for them. I’ll only talk about “girls I’ve met” in a nice, normal way and there’ll be a few laughs from the guys because we know the rest of the story.

Enjoy the great times ahead Dave! It only gets better from where you are now.

Cheers
Dan

Dan,

I love your products. I listen to them over and over again while at work. It’s better than music cause I pick up something new every time that I can relate to. Especially as I progress with my skill building.

Anyway, I had a thought that I wanted to share with you guys. I am friends with some girls who I am not attracted to and they have a natural inclination to put down or shake their heads at prettier girls who act girly. I personally love it when attractive women act girly! I never shake my head at this and want to encourage this behavior. Then I reached an epiphany:

Society, whether it is the media, evolution or otherwise, is encouraging the unnatural thoughts that have led to confusion with guys (who were like me, and as I understand yourself Dan, and Ben) about their understanding of male/female relationships. Not only is it confusing men, it is confusing women as well. They seem to think that girly women are not attractive, or perhaps the girly persona shows a lack of intelligence, and that assertive manly women are what guys want. How ridiculous!

In relation to what you guys are doing, you are doing something wonderful for guys who were/are lost or a little confused about the way things are or have evolved to. Anyone can look at it in a negative light where if more guys learn about this stuff, there will be less attractive women available. I look at it like this; the more guys know about this stuff, the more feminine women will act and compete for strong guys’ attention, which would be awesome. I think the natural evolution will win in the end, and women will continue to become more feminine and the most masculine/alpha men will come out on top. The plain women will continue to put down, and the ignorant men will have to settle. So not only are you guys doing good things for men, you are doing good things for women as well.

Anyway, I thought I would share this as you seem the type to have interest in philosophy and it is always exciting to see little epiphany’s, or different perspectives through your clients eyes.

Keep up the awesome work!

Hi Dave

Very well said. I appreciate you sharing that.

Ben, Stu and I had a discussion in the early days about the wider contributions we would be making to the world if we really got stuck into this and followed through. We realized that not only would be achieve what you are saying, but we would reduce depression rates for men and women (many men depressed because they are suppressing their masculinity and many women their femininity), reduce rapes, reduce suicides, etc. We would also be adding more confident, capable men to the world who had the area of women under control, so they could then spend their time working on their purpose and contribution to this life instead of wasting their years away feeling lonely, insecure and bitter about their lack of success with women. Success with women is easy when you have the right information and use the right approach. From there, you can get on with enjoying women and all other areas of your life.

So yes – I definitely appreciate you saying what you have Dave. In fact, I think you’re the first person to come forward and say it, so thank you. It’s nice see that those type of things are being thought about and noticed.

Enjoy the great times ahead!

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,

I’ve bought a few of your products in the past and i’d like to thank you, Ben and Stu for giving me a solid understanding of how to attract and date women.

I have a lot of female friends on facebook. Some of which I haven’t spoke to for a while and have lost contact with, others I know from school/university which I have never spoken to before. (I’m at uni now so i know all these girls within the last 3-4 years)

Is it acceptable to send these girls a message and start going through The Flow process with them, regardless of whether or not i’ve spoken to them before?

I know how to go about attracting them and everything else, although i’m a little worried that they may find it weird that i’ve never spoke to some of them before and suddenly i send them a message saying hi ?

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Cheers

Hi Jamie

Thanks for your positive feedback. Much appreciated.

About hitting on random girls on Facebook: Yes, they do find it weird. I’ve asked many of my female friends and lovers about what they experience on Facebook and they pretty much all say the same thing. That being, when a random guy contacts them via Facebook they:

1. Assume he must be a friend of a friend.
2. If he’s not, most of them ignore the message or friend add request.
3. If he is, they are open to receiving the message.
4. If he starts hitting on them immediately, they get suspicious and wonder why.
5. They look at his photos and activity on his timeline to see if he’s lonely, has many real friends and if he hooks up with unattractive women (or no women). They then make a judgement about him.
6. If he is cool, has a life and has been with attractive women, they feel more open to the message.

Now, if someone like you contacts these women Jamie, they will be open to it because you know how to flirt and communicate with them properly. However, most guys fail. See: Online Dating: Does it Still Work?

Cheers
Dan

Okay, after a long drawn attempt not to post a success story/stories, I have finally given into the temptation and decided to post.
Yes, I was totally hopeless before I discovered The Modern Man. I never really had a problem sparking the interest of women, women actually used to approach me on a good number of occasions(asking me for the time when they obviously had a wrist watch on, constantly stealing glances in my direction, standing a couple feet away from me for no reason at all etc). I just never knew why or how to move things forward and noticed that the times I actually engaged in conversations with the women who were interested in me, their interest would all of a sudden die off after a few minutes of conversation as I kept showcasing my lack of confidence, low self-esteem and nervousness, I could sometimes even see the look of disappointment written all over their faces. It wasn’t until a friend of mine who had actually read The Flow, offered the book to me to read that I realize what the heck I had being doing wrong all my life. I was the chief culprit in doing all the wrong things noted in The Flow that turn women off so fast you wouldn’t believe it. I deserved an award for biggest loser with women. I was so scared and terrified of women especially attractive ones, as I always saw them as these untouchable beings that I could never come close to having and I wondered how men interacted with women much less even had sex with them or even married them. I remember eavesdropping on some of my friends conversations with girls just so I could get some insight into what they were talking about or what “lines” they were using(yeah I know; pathetic). I actually thought women weren’t interested in men and that they were only just accommodating men into their lives.
Now fast forward to this present day, about 3 years after I first read The Flow. I can confidently say( at the risk of bragging) I live the sort of life guys would think only exists in movies. Why? Just about every women I interact with gets attracted to me pretty quickly. Infact, these days I virtually have to cut down the number of girls/women I interact with because it is just a given that they would be attracted to me and start looking for ways of entering into my life. I have made it a personal rule not to interact too much with my close buddies’ girlfriends as it could lead to them dumping their boyfriends for me. On one occasion I slipped and was interacting with friend’s girl at a party, she basically ignored her boyfriend(my close friend) and was all over me getting me food and drinks while I just sat down, like she was my wife. Had to leave the venue as I feared my friend could start getting really jealous. Even my own brother’s girlfriend was literally throwing herself at me, asking me to let her do my laundry(something she never does for my brother).
My whole life as it is right now is a success story. I fear no one, I walk around with the feeling that I can accomplish anything I want it life, no one intimidates me, other guys just defer to me in social situations even though am not tall or rich or the most popular guy in the world. Basically put, the world reacts to me very differently. I am only 5’6″and look 17 when am actually 24, but people who are even older than me call me “Sir” just cause of the way I talk assertively and carry myself. I have gone from been intimidated by gorgeous women to seeing them as little cute kids. Once I set my eyes on a girl I want, its a given that she’s mine. I know a lot of guys would read this and conclude to themselves “this guy is full of B.S” but trust me you can live the life just as Dan describes it full of beautiful, wonderful women that bring joy to your life. No kidding!!!
If you are still thinking of buying The Modern man products, do yourself a favour, stop thinking and go for it.

Three questions Dan,
1. What’s with women greeting me by bowing down their heads slightly when am walking past them. Can be really embarrassing. Makes me feel older than I actually am. Am a young man please, and even look younger than I actually am

2. A couple of times women reach from the back seat of the car to caress my chest(like a guy would fondle a girl’s tits) just before hopping out. What’s the meaning of that kind of behavior?

3. Finally, what’s your view on God and Religion as it pertains to attraction and sex?

Thanks again for your ebook. It has changed my life 180 degrees. Fabulous piece of work. You’ve really got this attraction stuff nailed.

Hi Tosin

As always, your post is awesome.

I’m glad you finally got around to posting up a success story, instead of the insightful posts you usually share. Thanks so much. For the guys who are still THINKING about getting started and investing in my advice, read Tosin’s post. He’s not kidding.

As for your questions:

1. It usually means they think you’re cute. That or they are simply showing you respect.
2. They are testing you. My read on the situation is that they know that YOU know that you’re “hot stuff” with women, so they are trying to mess with your confidence and bring you down a level so they don’t feel so intimidated. I explain how to respond to tests in Better Than a Bad Boy.
3. Sorry, that’s not a topic for this site because people get very emotional about their religious beliefs. Personally, I respect everyone’s religious beliefs and people can think or have faith in whatever they want. In my opinion, they are probably right in what they believe in or stand for.

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan its DC. I have a simple question. Some days I feel very confident. Others not so much. If i dont feel very confident should i approach a girl anyway or not? Thx
DC

I know you talk about this when you talk about GIST but when im down it is still really hard.

Hi DC

I appreciate your comments mate, but like most times – you are not following the advice properly while other guys are. So, this comment of yours is quite frustrating to see. The guys leaving success stories here are the ones who follow the advice properly. If you had paid attention to the very clear instructions I give with the GIST technique (by the way, which was successfully tested out for YEARS with clients and myself before I released it in a program), you would not be saying that. Why? When you use the GIST technique, it STOPS you from feeling down, lacking confidence, etc because of what the technique involves. Obviously, I can’t reveal it here, but please do me and you a favor and use the advice properly instead making lazy comments like that. Pay attention, follow the simple instructions and stop making excuses that have no basis other than laziness.

Be a success story, not an excuse story. Do that by following the advice, not by being lazy and failing to follow the simple instructions.

…yes, I am a bit annoyed right now mate! ? You of all people should know better. However, I understand that some people are slower learners than others. In the meantime, follow the instructions properly and you will no longer experience the problem you mention.

Cheers
Dan

Hey Dan,

Wassup. Yeah things have been going good, I am startin to feel comfort flirting. Some of these things just take time to sink in and Im beginning to integrate the programs like you said. Attracting now is a piece of cake. Connecting is gettin better.

But I have hit a plateau in motivation and drive and when i am low on drive or “mojo” for life, my skills with girl dip a bit. Figured out it wasn’t me but my emotional state.
How do you wake up every morning energized to live and if you are a little down how to you recharge your drive to live your purpose?

Hi Kingsley

Great to hear of your progress. Keep going and let me know when you break through to success.

About your question on staying motivated about life and your purpose: Simple. Take action. Action creates motivation because you see results. Inaction brings you down because previous results seem so far in the past. Keep moving forward. Eventually, you will have created so much positive, forward-moving momentum that your life will hum like a Ferrari engine.